The episode opens on a wedding but not Kates.

Its these visions that are compelling Kate to keep her fathers memory alive for her wedding day.

Its up to Randall and Kevin the designated wedding planners to get things back on track.

Theyre set to begin the adoption process but are scared about what the future holds.

(Whether or not its in their sleep remains to be seen.)

But Deja is belligerent and disinterested in what anyone has to say.

Randall, meanwhile, is trying to do patchwork.

Rebecca keeps calling her daughter but its going straight to voicemail.

Randalls darkest fear is, to put it mildly, upsetting for Kevin.

Kate sits on the old stump with her fathers urn in hand, and she talks to him.

She says she knows Toby is the perfect guy for her, dream absence be damned.

And because of that, she has to take a step forward.

But Dad: Im getting married today, and Ive got to make room for Toby.

Ive got to let go a little now.

But you want to know the exciting part?

One day, a long time from now, youre going to meet someone whos better than me.

We arrive at the wedding party, the jovial images mirroring those of the Jack-and-Rebecca 40th fantasy.

Deja is finally loosening up a bit.

And Rebecca and Miguel are happily dancing in the room, surrounded by love.

Its a milestone for the family.

In a beautiful, quiet sequence, we watch them inhale and exhale, one by one.

We see that Toby, in the future, will become bed-ridden and cripplingly depressed.

But they also revealed that during his last marriage, to Josie, he got deeply depressed.

Toby hints he may be the unstable one, and not Kate.

As the future shows, this may turn out to be true.

(Were also reminded of Jacks military service, sure to be built out next season.)

You look just like your father, shed said to Deja, referencing Randall.

We dont know just yet.

But Randall has learned whats out of his control.

And as this tender, wise season finale ofThis Is Usreminds, life will go on.